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  • Chapter 35

    A few days ago, I celebrated my 35th birthday. As the day quickly approached, I began to feel intense anxiety. It’s funny how, when I was a young girl, I… Read more

  • Bring in the New Year

    Not your typical New Years Resolution… There’s something about bringing in the New Year that excites me. Yes, I know, it’s just a day that marks a new year, but… Read more

  • Embracing Motherhood

    The things I wish I embraced… Growing up, I never imagined being a mother, let alone, a stay-at-home mother of five. I also didn’t picture getting married and having to… Read more

  • Moment of Gloom

    I woke up this morning feeling such discontent with my life. I can say that right now, I am not happy. The tears rolled down my face as I prayed… Read more

  • Navigating Grief: Lessons Learned and Healing Strategies

    “Grief, I’ve learned, is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give, but cannot. All the unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the… Read more

  • It’s Time

    It’s time for me to grieve the realization that you may never love me the way I need you to. It’s time to let go of the unrealistic expectations that… Read more

  • Forgiveness: Finding Peace and Healing from Resentment

    “Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.” -Mark Twain Forgiveness is something that I have really struggled with throughout my life. There… Read more

  • Hope in the Midst of Depression

    *DISCLAIMER: Trigger warning: Suicidal thoughts, depression, abuse. Since the age of 12, depression is something that has been tormenting me. It has stolen much of my joy throughout the years,… Read more

  • Tips and Quotes for When You’re Feeling Overwhelmed

    “Not everything that is faced can be changed. But nothing can be changed until it’s faced. “-James Baldwin Overwhelm: to overcome completely in mind or feeling. The feeling of overwhelm… Read more

  • Parenting Reflections: Learning and Growing with My Children

    Last week, my oldest son asked me if I wanted to go to get some frozen yogurt with him after work. I felt honored that he would even ask me.… Read more

  • Overcoming Childhood Trauma: Embracing Self-Worth Without Fatherly Validation

    One of the most bittersweet, yet painful things about my stepfather leaving our lives was having to face the reality of my relationship with my dad. When we were young,… Read more

  • From Adversity to Empowerment: Recognizing Choices and Building Confidence in Work and Life

    “Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious and you get to decide how you use them. You teach people how to treat you by deciding… Read more

  • Overcoming an Abusive Relationship: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Resilience

    I’m learning so much in this new chapter of self-discovery. The more I start to respect myself and well-being and embracing my self-worth, the less I am able to tolerate… Read more

  • Finding Grace and Healing Through Suffering: A Testimony

    Why does God allow bad things to happen to His children? As a little girl, I had a close relationship with God. I considered Him my friend and sang to… Read more

  • My First Love

    The boy that I met at a Christian School in the middle of nowhere changed the way that I looked at love. After my stepfather left, it left me with… Read more

  • This Isn’t Love

    #triggerwarning #childhoodsexualabuse I was five years old, and when family and I went to the new church that my mother would be playing the piano for, and my dad would… Read more

  • Finding Peace in Vulnerability: A Journey of Healing and Faith

    Last Sunday, my family and I were in the house getting ready for the week ahead, and I went upstairs to grab something. I came to the top of the… Read more

  • What I would Tell my Younger Self (things I wish I knew)

    “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose (Rom.8:28).” Read more

  • Trust

    The greatest gift someone can give me is knowing that they can be trusted. When it comes to friendship and intimate relationships, trust is so crucial and fragile. Knowing that… Read more

  • Five Fun Things

    Five things I do for fun (oh, this was harder than I thought): Read more

  • Amaris

    My name is Amaris:promised by God. My mother always wanted to have children. She said that God told her that she would be a mother. When she got married and… Read more

  • Long Life

    For most of my life, I assumed that I would live a long and healthy life. As I’ve gotten older, I realize how fragile life is and how much we… Read more

  • Goodbye Past

    I’m such a planner. I have so many hopes and dreams of what my future will be. The experiences that I may have, the trips I may take. I wonder… Read more

  • Reduce the Clutter

    I can literally reduce the clutter in every single aspect of my life right now. My bedroom, office, closets…every single room in my house has too much in it right… Read more

  • Night Person

    I am definitely a night-person. There’s something special about the quiet, when everyone else is sleeping and I can reflect on my day. It’s the best time for me to… Read more

Welcome to my blog!

I’m Amaris, a mom of five, wife, holistic doula, and survivor of childhood sexual abuse. Through this blog, I will be sharing my journey of growth, healing, life-lessons, and overcoming adversity.

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